Conflict Is Not a Logic Problem – Why arguments rarely end arguments

Think of the last time you had a really strong argument with someone. A real one. Not a polite disagreement. An emotionally burning fight. Raised voices. Maybe even shouting. Picture the sitution in your head. Precisely. Feel the emotion, the tension, the anger. Now imagine: In the next moment you say something. And your counterpart … Read more

Why Teams Fail Even When Everyone Is Smart

When projects fail, we usually blame the usual suspects. timelines budgets technology requirements It feels comforting. Those things are tangible. They show up in PowerPoint. They can be escalated. What we hesitate to confront is the team. Not because the team did not work hard, but because the team dynamics quietly undermined everything else. The … Read more

Stakeholder Management – Why Ignoring the Difficult Ones Makes Projects Fail

When people talk about project risk, they usually mean timelines, budgets, or technical dependencies. What they rarely mean are stakeholders. And yet, in real projects, stakeholder management is one of the most decisive success factors. Not because stakeholders write code or design processes, but because they shape the environment in which projects either move forward … Read more

Why Leadership has more to do with Orchestras than you think

Most people think leadership is a skill someone learns from books or job titles. A promotion comes, a new role comes, and suddenly the expectation is to lead. But leadership does not start with the title. It starts much earlier, in the moments where people naturally decide to follow someone. During my project leadership classes … Read more

Why Most Projects Fail Before They Even Start

And why nobody talks about the first ten days.Preparation decides everything — in surgery as well as in projects. Most people believe projects fail at the end.When deadlines slip.When budgets explode.When coordination collapses.When everyone is frustrated. But the truth is different, and far more uncomfortable: Projects do not fail in month six.They fail in week … Read more

The art of communication

“Communication is rather an art than a science.” — Thich Nhat Hanh Fully true, in my opinion. Just like in art, communication comes in many forms and styles. Which one you prefer depends on your personality and on how you naturally connect with others. But mastering this art pays off immensely. A Harvard Business School … Read more

No goals, no success

If you don’t know where you are going, no route will take you there. (Lewis Carroll, Alice in Wonderland, 1865) Without defining what is to be achieved, efforts can’t be coordinated and success becomes impossible, both for individuals and for organisations. As one of the most influential managers in Silicon Valley and the 1997 Time … Read more